What to do when your friend is dating your crush
Dear Auntie, I met this girl about 6 months ago and I really liked her.
He has a history of kind of driving his girlfriends away. I think, had I made it known, he probably wouldn't have asked her out, but now they are a couple due to my hesitation. He probably would understand the situation if he knew how I felt, but I don't want to cause them unnecessary stress or risk angering him. While girls take a while to build the whole bonding thing, guys just don’t care. But when you like a friend’s new girlfriend or even an old one, you’re definitely on unstable ground. Or admire her from afar and eventually forget about her. His girlfriend is the sexiest thing you’ve ever seen and you can’t stop fantasizing about her, or wishing she could be with you instead of your friend. When you’re a guy, it’s easy to instantly get attracted to a girl you meet, even if she’s your friend’s girlfriend. Firstly, most people are going to tell you to drop the thought. And at times, you dating your friend’s girlfriend may end up turning out to be the best thing for everyone involved. In a worst case scenario, you date a friend’s girlfriend only months after they’ve broken up. But if you don’t know this guy very well or he’s not a great friend, then you could still give this a thought. She may be hot, and all you probably want to do is hold her hands or take a sneak peek at her cleavage. So what do you do when you find yourself in a dilemma like this. [Read: The best way to attract a girl with a boyfriend] How well do you know your friend? For starters, how well do you know this friend, is he a real good buddy or someone you just know in passing? You don’t steal a girl from a best buddy, however bad things get.